You can stop looking… 60 years of research on the G-Spot has lead scientists to believe that is doesn’t exist! Mark gets irate at spouses who won’t fulfill the sexual needs of their mate, answers a question on how long to persist when pursuing a hard-to-get girl, and discusses how too much talking in marriage can be a bad thing.
A listener wants to know if you fall out of love with your mate, was it really love in the first place? A husband wonders if his wife is right when she says that sex is only for procreation, and a wife wants advice as to whether she should file for divorce since her husband wants it anyway.
Mark and Debbie start of the show talking about why he urges people to have more babies, and ties the low birth rate to the tragic impact of the epidemic of selfishness in our culture. They discuss where the inception of marriage is in the bible and how it spanned cultures world wide. Mark answers an email from a listener who wonders if porn is just a symptom of a bigger problem in marriage or with men. Another listener asks the question “Is masturbation ok when your spouse isn’t physically able to have sex?” Mark also discusses what can help women with a low mid-life sex drive and the connection between having the desire and actually having sex. He answers and question about covenant marriage and explains why it is important to get the option in every state in the country. Mark answers an email in which he takes on the notion of “I”m only staying in the marriage for my kids”, and gives advice on breaking free from “sexual appliances”.
Today’s show is a repeat of the show from March 11, 2009. Mark discusses community marriage initiatives, covenant marriage, the idea that you can love your spouse and still be involved in an affair, women allowing men to help them at home, the need for mentors in your marriage, when you have to choose between your spouse and your child, the need for men to experience consequences to change their behavior, why reasoning, whining, yelling and silence usually won’t work with a man, and being a lover to your spouse rather than being selfish in sex.
On today’s show Mark discusses community marriage initiatives, covenant marriage, the idea that you can love your spouse and still be involved in an affair, women allowing men to help them at home, the need for mentors in your marriage, when you have to choose between your spouse and your child, the need for men to experience consequences to change their behavior, why reasoning, whining, yelling and silence usually won’t work with a man, and being a lover to your spouse rather than being selfish in sex.