Archive: Tagged ‘family’

12-15-2009

Mark and Debbie open the show with a hilarious You Tube video that everyone should hear!

The 2 get to an e-mail on the show from a pregnant wife that has discovered that her husband is cheating on her and she doesn’t know what to do. Mark addresses questions that deal with sexual needs, abusive men and a husband that moved out when his wife got sick.

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11-25-2009

Mark and Debbie open the show with Oprah’s newest endeavor. The 2 talk about holiday family events, the damage women do when they coddle their sons, and sucking it up and being nice for the holidays!!1

Mark explains the rule of actually liking someone when you date them. Debbie brings an e-mail to the show from a wife, whose husband has confessed that he has feelings for an old flame.

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11-16-2009

Mark and Debbie start the week with a New York Times health article, Divorce Risk Higher When Wife Gets Sick.

A man has ended his relationship with his family, because they will not accept his new wife. Mark and Debbie talk about respecting family and your parents. The 2 also discuss ‘other’ ways of meeting the sexual needs of your spouse.

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08-18-2009

Mark is back from Bermuda! They open the show with a a New York Times article,  Those Aren’t Fighting Words, Dear. The article tells one woman’s story whose husband came home one day and said, ” I don’t love you anymore!” For 4 months that woman acted like it didn’t happen, and her husband returned to her.

Mark and Debbie move onto e-mails and get to one that deals with hurt and owning up to the things you have done wrong in your marriage and the harm in blaming the innocent spouse. Another e-mail is read from a wife whose husband wakes her up in the middle of the night, every night, for sex and apparently gave her 2 STDs and she is concerned about adultery.

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07-21-2009

To open the show Mark and Debbie go over a list of friendship danger signs that can lead to an affair. (listed below)

Debbie reads an e-mail on the show from a woman who’s husband left her for her sister. The woman is now re-married but is still struggling with the situation and for custody of the kids. Mark encourages her new husband to continue to stand up for his wife and gives away his very first Brass Balls award.

Mark talks about getting a vasectomy, big families and being a man.  A caller joins the show with a question about how to appreciate her husband when he rubs things in her face. A women e-mails the show about wanting to move away from a small town after her husband admits to having an affair.


Close Calls by Dave Carder

Tips from the Smart Marriages Conference

Friendship Danger Signs

Any relationship with potential for quick chemistry is dangerous, here are the signs that you are headed in a dangerous direction

  1. Save topics for conversation
  2. You share spousal difficulties
  3. Your friend shares relationship difficulties
  4. Anticipation to see your friend more than a spouse
  5. You compare spouse to friend
  6. Provide special treats to friend
  7. More concern for friend than spouse
  8. Fantasize marriage with your friend
  9. More alone time with friend than spouse
  10. No spousal access to conversations with friend
  11. Spend money on friend without spouse knowledge
  12. Conflicts with spouse over friend
  13. Lie to spend time with friend
  14. Hide interactions with friend from spouse
  15. Accuse spouse of jealousy
  16. Develop special rituals with friend
  17. Friend shares their feelings or touches you which creates inward response
  18. Sexual content in conversation with friend
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