NEW EPISODE: Study links church attendance with marriage stability. A couple needs help breaking away from the use of some harmful sexual fantasy. Is spending quality family time more important than going to church on a Sunday? Is it possible for people to disagree with each other without arguing? How do I submit to a husband with a diagnosed mental illness? A young man asks: Should I take medication to help lower my sex drive?
I think for the first question, last weeks advice just to keep doing it might help. It is silly to expect that after years of fantasy, her wife will orgasm without it just like that. They have to find away for her to reach it without it, and it only can work by trial and error… It is silly to wait two months and then just go back to the old way… And feel the guilt again.