More tips to make your relationship feel like it did in the beginning. A woman writes after she overheard her husband confessing his problem with lust. Do I fake it even if my husband doesn’t “get my motor running”? Must a widow fulfill her husband’s request remarry after he’s gone? Should I confess my past sexual sin to my parents or the guys I date? As a divorced mother of two children, should I approach a man at church that I am interested in?