NEW EPISODE: 4 Fatal Relationship Mistakes. A woman is insecure and jealous about the attention her partner gets from other women. What is an adult child’s role when his parents divorce? A guy wants to learn to laugh more. What is an appropriate age range for one’s “dating pool”? Should I wait to hear a “yes” from God before I look for a spouse?
To the lady who is wondering if she should wait to hear a yes from God regarding dating, I want to vouch for Mark on his answer in this podcast. I once had a young adults pastor give this “great” story about how he met his wife in ministry instead of going on a hundred dates. I know what he was trying to say was not to obsess over trying to find a wife/husband so as to not interfere with the job God want’s you to do. But I, a 26 year old male, took offense to the tag line the pastor used which was “God will bring you a wife/husband”.
Knowing that God requires action in our faith, I did what any good fella would do when you can’t meet a Christian girl at church because over half the congregation gobbled up this malarkey: go online dating! I paid for a year’s subscription on eHarmony and met a sweet girl just over a month who I would in a year ask to be my wife. We just celebrated our fifth anniversary (poor thing LOL).
It should be noted that the same sweet girl I mentioned was in the process of shutting down her eHarmony account just as we were being matched. If I had listened to that ninnyhammer, I would never have met my wife! Go find and be found for Heaven’s sake!
everything sounded good until you mentioned you were a “MALE”. (best to use MAN or even GUY). Daniel… i actually hate those terms, MALE & FEMALE when it comes to identifying yourself..
its best to use the term LADY or WOMAN
Jubilee, sorry if you have an issue of terms but I’m confused.
Male vs man/guy/dude/ etc or female vs lady/woman/dudette etc. Not to sound like Clinton but, what difference does that make?! These terms that corresponds with the specific gender are all the same!