What is the definition of cheating? How can I get my second husband to support me in the care of my grandchildren when he sees them as a complication to our life? Should I stay single for life after a serious porn and masturbation problem? A 58 year old man need help with a 78 year old woman he’s trying to date and husband is unhappy that his wife won’t perform oral sex now that they are married. How do I deal with my husband cussing at me? What do I do about a guy who keeps flirting but won’t ask me out?