The answer to “Not tonight dear, I have a headache”…sex actually cures it! What can we do when I want children and my husband says we aren’t financially ready? Is my husband just being jealous and controlling about my male friends on Facebook? How can I get my sexual mojo back after having kids?
In regards to the how do I get my sexual mojo back question. I get what you say about just do it… I understand that you can’t wait until you FEEL like it, just like you have to clean, cook etc even when you don’t feel like. The difference with sex though is that it is a little more intimate and personal than cleaning your toilet. I don’t think you really recognise that well enough. What happens when the woman just does it because it it the right thing to do, but feels horrible afterwards. There are emotional issues that maybe need to be addressed for that woman. It isn’t always as simple as just do it