Why would a pastor open a sex shop for Christians? Mark answers emails: A guy needs help after his wife says she doesn’t love him anymore, a wife is having “odoriferous” issues with her husband, and a guy thinks it’s okay to masturbate since he’s thinking of his wife.
This fellow who is masturbating while thinking about his wife needs to understand that even by doing this act he is still robbing from himself and from his wife. He might as well be doing this with thought of some poor random woman in his mind.
The only cure for that is straight up cold turkey. With a side of good male friends who can be accountability partners and a great big helping of humble pie as it is a selfish and pathetic act. No “ands”, “ifs” or “buts”.