There was so much truth in today’s episode.
Background: My husband and I have been married for almost 22 years. We met when I was 16 and he was 19, started dating a year later. Married when I was 22 and he was 25. After about a year of dating I started talking about “when we get married….” His mother was extremely perturbed and talked with us about it. “you are too young to get married!!” there was more but I don’t remember what else it was. I started crying, as I do when I am angry, (I hate this stupid female characteristic about myself), and she said the fact that I was crying showed that as further proof that I was too immature. Mark was in college at the time(ended up being a useless associates and bachelors degrees) and we should wait as she and Mark’s dad did getting married at 29 each. Just like you have stated, we were told to wait til marriage to have sex. We thought we were doing that by doing just about everything but vaginal sex(no anal sex, ICK!!!). Fast forward to 2011. Our 15 year old daughter is dating a 17 year old young man that we really like. We didn’t want her dating this young but also knew she would just sneak around if we didn’t allow it, thus probably making more mistakes. We do see these two as marriage material. They treat each other really well, are very sweet to each other etc. We have also been stating that once she is 18 she is free to marry if they are still together and crazy in love . We would do as you suggest and still support them in their schooling and I would not be against them living in our home. This is thanks to you!
You are right on about the imprinting thing too. (surprise, surprise) Since oral sex was part of our first experiences(we are each others one and only), the hubby almost always wants at least a little of it. Sometimes it drives me nuts but now I realize that it was my fault. Otherwise we truly enjoy each other.
Now to what you talked about on today’s show. My husband has asked for anal sex to which my statement is “if you even get near that hole you can kiss any sexual experiences from me GOOD BYE”. He knows that I would hold to that, and since guys named “Mark” tend to be great fans of sex he has not tried. I have heard that teens have anal sex when the girl has her period so that they don’t have to deal with that mess. ICK ICK ICK! I am glad you discussed this topic, as nasty as it is.
ewwwwwWWwwww ANAL SEX IS SODOMY…..period…male or female. I didnt know this came from delayed marriage though